When my boyfriend and I first started dating, we began asking each other many questions to get to know one another. One of my favorites is, “What destinations are on your bucket list?” He named several locations, but one particular piqued my interest, Roswell, N.M.  “Why would you want to go to Roswell,” I asked.  “Aliens,” he replied.  Searching for aliens is not exactly my cup of tea, but people tell me relationships are all about compromising. In January, I was itching to get away for a weekend, and Roswell was within driving distance.  Before we left, I remembered a friend of mine happened to live in Roswell. I asked…